I have very different standards for myself. Cheating is morally wrong.Ĭheating is wrong if youdo it. I am checking in to see that I am still significant that you still ache and long for me. This is a test and Ill often “check in” with you after I disappear for days, subject you to a hideous violation or silent treatment, or make you jealous by showing off my newest victim. I want to know that I still have control over you and your life. Soon, you won’t be able to recognize the person you first fell in love with. Then, I’ll take the mask off from time to time. Now Ill morph into what you have always wanted in a partner at least, for the time being until I get what I want. I know your deepest wounds and desires, because upon first meeting you I poked and prodded to uncover your strengths, weaknesses, interests, passions and everything youre missing from your life. Ive studied you and I am mirroring you, just like I have done with all of my other victims. Its not crazy at all, it’s perfectly calculated. And who knows? Perhaps if one or two of my victims ‘bow out’ you’ll get to occupy a new position on my weekly rotation.
However, Ill be happy to keep you waiting for my attention on the sidelines so I can tap into your resources whenever Id like. I am so busy sleeping with my boyfriend and girlfriend over the weekend, taking out my various affair partners out on weeknights and flirting with anything that moves in my spare moments.I simply dont have the time to invest in you while entertaining so many others. Youre my transitional target, not my primary one something to keep me satisfied in between my two or more significant others. Don’t worry, you can be my “friend” too! 4. Any time I disappear, you can bet I am love-bombing someone and getting the attention I am entitled to. Rest assured, theres always plenty of ego strokes to go around for me. Ive got lotsof friends in my harem who worship me and who need my time. I am busy grooming my primary source of narcissistic supply, an old flame or a new victim.
Theyre just stalking me because they want me back so desperately couldnt have anything to do with the pain Ive inflicted upon them, right? 3. Theyre just jealous of what we have – or at least that’s what I’ll tell you. Dont be surprised if they reach out to warn you but by the time they do, youll be convinced theyre crazy and obsessed with me. They tried to hold me accountable for my actions. They called me out, even tried to expose me. My past victims discovered my infidelity, my falsehoods and even gained a momentary glance behind the mask. Youll want to believe in the person I pretended to be, rather than who I really am. That will create a conflict in you enough reasonable doubt for whenever my lies come to the surface. Slowly but surely, I am brainwashing you into believing that I would never lie. Youll be confused because my actions speak so differently than my words. When you’re struggling to understand why I am acting with such cruelty, youll remember how I stressed to you that I am an honest person, a person of integrity and character – a person who would never do such things. You do know that an authentic truth-teller wouldn’t have to convince you, right? The reason I constantly have to tell you I would never lie to you is because I know you will eventually find the discrepancies between what I say and what I do. Here are twelve of the most common lies narcissists and sociopaths tell us, translated into what they actually mean: 1. However, when expressed by a predatory personality in the context of manipulation, the following statements carry a far different and darker meaning. Some of these phrases can be uttered by those who are not narcissists. Yet there are common lies narcissists and sociopaths tell their victims that, if translated to the truth, would expose the reality behind their actions. They lead double lives and engage in con artistry under the radar, often going unnoticed for years. How do they get away with their lies? Covert wolves in sheep’s clothing build a very convincing, charismatic false mask for society and often have a great deal of “social proof” in the form of enabling supporters who believe in their facade. In fact, compulsive lying is associated with narcissistic and antisocial personality disorders – likely connected to the lack of empathy and propensity for exploitative behavior inherent in these disorders (Ford, King & Hollender, 1988 Baskin-Sommers, Krusemark, & Ronningstam, 2014). It’s common knowledge that manipulative personalities tend to engage in a great deal of pathological lying and deceit.
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